Saturday, November 14, 2009

Most Important words........Lets practice

Six most important words: I admit I made a mistake
Five most important words: I am Proud of You
Four Most important words: Perhaps you are Right
Three most important words: I Love you
Two most important words: Thank you
One most important word: Please
Last most important word:I

Narayan Ch. Panda..(couple of Months with my Dadaji)Retro ReFlExIoN*

There was a time during 2001; I used to chat with my paternal Grandfather who was an octogenarian at that time. A successful AYURVEDIC PRACTICINOR of his time who struggled very hard during his early times later on became popular among mass of 50-100 villagers as “Kabiraj”.I missed my childhood in his company but that was a blessing in disguise bcoz I found reason to be in his vicinity in my adulthood. Might be I woun’t learned that much as I was in this time period (although it’s a very short). The way he understand people is really impressive. I used to sit with him with my diary and jotted down what ever comes from his mouth……everything comes from his end (although I didn’t agreed…with bit of arguments/discussions..still I was able to convinced by him and so also to him)

Shovadhare Kusuma nikare, Kinsuke Nasi Gandham

Gandhadhare Gagana Bihage, chandane Nasti Puspam

Ekshu Brukshe na bhabati falam, Ketaki Kantakatya

Ekadhare sakala suvagam Durlavam hi triloke….

Meaning: dispite of exquisite beauty, Kinsuka(Palas,the flame of the forest) has no scant, Where as despite of such a heavy aroma, the sandalwood is devoid of flowers,

Ekshu (sugarcane plant) is the sweetest of all still lacks fruits and The Ketaki (the pandanus) although the most beautiful but forbidden one as it is surrounded by spines………….whats the moral??????????????????????/

Ja sundara (Handsome) tat banita(wife) kurupa(ugly)

Ja sundari tat pati (husband)rupahina

Jarto/yatrovayam(when both) tatro daridrataa(there poverty)

Bidhe vichitrani bitasthitanii (How wonder the world is)

Sashini (Moon) Khalukalanka (spot), Kantakatwa (spine)padmanadam(lotus)

Udadhi (sea or ocean) Jalam payam(jalam+apayam), Panditayee (wise) Nirdhanatwam (poor)

Bayashi (maiden early age) bidhaba (widow)yoga, Nirbibakam Vidatha (unfairness of God)

On “Desire” He said……

Na Jatu Kama Kamanam, Upabhoge Nasamyati

Habisa Krishnavatwee, bhoya eeba vivardhate

Means: No Desire can be fulfilled on it unrighteous fulfilment. It increases like the fire with the action of Ghee

Dusta bhairja(wife), sathan (cheat) Mitra, Vrityaschovaradayaka

Sasarpavu gruhe basa, Mrityu-reba Nasansaya

Means: A vicious wife, A cryptic friend, and an argumentative servant

The residents in a house..A dead beyond Question

He used to said….Assets is the most sensitive thing….and it has four brothers

Dhanasya chatura(four) bhrata

Dharmagnee(dharma+agnee), Nrupa, taskara

Jyosta Bhrata Prakupyanti,

Kupyante eetaroopi cha….

Every Sunday morning he used to donate money to the destitutes (mostly lepers).It most consists of small paper packets which consists of coins of 10paisa,20p, 25p, or 50.1 Rupees. He used to distribute that accordingly. I was a regular exercise (every Sunday)

One day I found that some beggers showed their dissatisfaction/frustration regarding the amount….as they demand only or not less than 1 Rupees…

On the evening I told him all these and asked not to give those who were discontenting on their part….on reply he narrated a sloka…

Tuno Naikasare Karena Dasadha…..

Sandhana kale satam

Chaperbhuta sahashra, Lakhya gamane

Koti su koti badhe.

Ante Arba(anteta+arba) Nikharba Bana Bibidho

Sita Patee Kshovitam

Atat Bana Parakramesu Mahima

Satpatre Danam Yatha……………

Friday, November 13, 2009

QaLiTy Of LiFe.....Up 2 U....

The quality of life that U lead depends upon the choices U made between Ur requirement and responses. Life has several demands which includes from family, contacts, perception of what reallyurgent and important. It also depends on long term choices U made and the priorities U set. It is the law of nature that results come only from the long consistent effort someone makes and the input inject to life. Every human being has a work to do, duty to perform and influence to exert pressure to achieve goal. So everyone’s task is unique. Our conscience is a representative of best and uniqueness in itself. For success we have to make sure that we set the ladder against the right wall. This is possible if we make the right decision every time. Our life can undergo change, depending on the type of decision we make. Any type of decision, good, bad, brilliant even a disastrous one leaves a tremendous impact on our life. Our position, ourstatus and our happiness depends on two kinds of decision we takes. Our planning and getting the right fact is the most important factor in forming the habit of correct decision. Nothing will help more in strengthening our confidence than a clear cut planning .our journey to specific destination may takes days, months or years. It is our creative planning which will get us on the top of ladder. The self confidence comes naturally and fearlessly.






Life is like is having a cup of tea. U sit by the window with a book in your lap, while soft, wisps of steam curl up from the tea cup.

U lift the cup, assume a mid distant gaze: and take a careless little sip, only to realize somebody forgot to put in one sugar.

Too lazy to limber up, you somehow struggle through that sugarless cup. Till u ruefully discovered un-dissolved sugar crystal sitting on the bottom…..

By then it is too late………………….

It is humbling to be asked material interests are not the only guiding light. Take the time to figure out how to get there. The quickest way may not necessarily be the best. The journey matters as much as the goal. Wishing u the best on ur track towards ur dream. Take good care of our fragile planet


The biggest room in the world is the room of improvement. So the person who improves himself or tries to improve his skill never fails. Even the river flows with the help of wave and thus makes itself clean. The wave of improvement makes a person clean like a river. Where as a pond which is depriving of any wave remain still and may be odour badly.

The biggest room in the world is the room of improvement. So the person who improves himself or tries to improve his skill never fails. Even the river flows with the help of wave and thus makes itself clean. The wave of improvement makes a person clean like a river. Where as a pond which is depriving of any wave remain still and may be odour badly. The first step to improvement, whether mental, moral, or religious, is to know ourselves - our weakness,errors, deficiencies, and sins, that, by divine grace, we may overcome and turn from them all.Self-improvement is the name of the game, and your primary objective is to strengthen yourself, not to destroy an opponent.There`s always room for improvement, you know-it`s the biggest room in the house.