Sunday, April 14, 2013

!NV!CtU$

Out of the night that covers me,
Black as the Pit from pole to pole,
I thank whatever gods may be
For my unconquerable soul.

In the fell clutch of circumstance
I have not winced nor cried aloud.
Under the bludgeonings of chance
My head is bloody, but unbowed.

Beyond this place of wrath and tears
Looms but the Horror of the shade,
And yet the menace of the years
Finds, and shall find, me unafraid.

It matters not how strait the gate,
How charged with punishments the scroll.
I am the master of my fate:
I am the captain of my soul.

                                                          ~William Ernest Henley~

It is a short poem by William Ernest Henley , and a great one! One of my ever favorites. 

 Chaos, circumstances, obstacles may be external but conflict is always internal. When you know how to resolve your internal conflict, u will be less bothered by external factors. In short, concentrate on your actions and reactions, try to purify yourself and  listen to yourself.

Monday, February 4, 2013

Even This Shall Pass Away!!!


Once in Persia reigned a King
Who upon his signet ring
Graved a maxim true and wise,
Which, if held before the eyes,
Gave him counsel at a glance,
Fit for every change and chance.
Solemn words, and these are they:
"Even this shall pass away."

Trains of camels through the sand
Brought his gems from Samarcand;
Fleets of galleys through the seas
Brought him pearls to match with these.
But he counted not his gain
Treasures of the mine or main;
"What is wealth?" the king would say;
"Even this shall pass away."

In the revels of his court
At the zenith of the sport,
When the palms of all his guests
Burned with clapping at his jests;
He amid his figs and wine,
Cried: "Oh loving friends of mine!"
"Pleasure comes but not to stay;"
"Even this shall pass away."

Fighting on a furious field,
Once a javelin pierced his shield;
Soldiers with a loud lament
Bore him bleeding to his tent;
Groaning from his tortured side,
"Pain is hard to bear," he cried,
"But with patience, day by day,
Even this shall pass away."

Towering in the public square,
Twenty cubits in the air,
Rose his statue, carved in stone,
Then, the king, disguised, unknown,
Stood before his sculptured name
Musing meekly, "What is fame?
Fame is but a slow decay
Even this shall pass away."

Struck with palsy, sere and old,
Waiting at the gates of gold,
Said he with his dying breath;
"Life is done, but what is death?"
Then, in answer to the King,
Fell a sunbeam on his ring,
Showing by a heavenly ray,
"Even this shall pass away."
--- Theodore Tilton



Even This Shall Pass Away: The Philosophy of Impermanence

The poem "Even This Shall Pass Away" beautifully encapsulates the wisdom of impermanence—an age-old truth echoed in various philosophies, religions, and literary works. The Persian king’s signet ring, engraved with these solemn words, serves as a guiding light, reminding him (and us) that everything—be it joy, sorrow, wealth, suffering, or even life itself—is transient.

This philosophy, simple yet profound, resonates across cultures and time. It teaches us humility in moments of triumph, resilience in times of despair, and detachment from both material possessions and fleeting emotions. The king’s journey in the poem, from revelry to suffering, from power to decay, from life to death, mirrors the cycles we all experience, making this wisdom universally relevant.


Impermanence in Philosophies and Teachings

1. The Stoic Perspective: All is Fleeting

The Stoic philosophers of ancient Greece and Rome—Marcus Aurelius, Seneca, and Epictetus—emphasized the transient nature of life. They urged people to neither cling to pleasure nor despair in suffering. In Meditations, Marcus Aurelius writes:

"Observe how ephemeral and worthless human things are... Today a drop of semen, tomorrow a pile of ashes."

This aligns perfectly with the Persian king’s realization: wealth, power, pleasure, and even pain are temporary. Stoicism teaches that by understanding impermanence, we gain inner peace and fortitude.

2. The Buddhist Doctrine of Anicca (Impermanence)

Buddhism places impermanence (Anicca) at the heart of its teachings. The Buddha taught that all things—material and immaterial—are in constant flux. Attachment to transient things leads to suffering (dukkha), while true wisdom comes from embracing change.

Consider the Buddhist parable of the sand mandala: monks painstakingly create intricate designs with colored sand, only to wipe them away upon completion. This ritual symbolizes the transient nature of existence, much like the Persian king's realization that "Even this shall pass away."

3. Hinduism: The Illusion of Permanence (Maya)

In Hindu philosophy, the world is seen as Maya—an illusion of permanence. The Bhagavad Gita reminds us:

"That which is born will die, and that which dies will be born again."

Hinduism teaches detachment (Vairagya), urging individuals to focus on self-realization rather than being entangled in the ephemeral pleasures and pains of life. The king’s reflection on fame—"Fame is but a slow decay"—aligns with this, as even the most celebrated figures eventually fade into history.


Lessons from the Poem: Applying Impermanence in Life

The Persian king experiences life’s highs and lows—wealth, pleasure, pain, fame, and even the approach of death. Yet in every circumstance, his ring whispers the same truth:

"Even this shall pass away."

1. In Times of Joy: Stay Humble

When the king revels in his court, surrounded by laughter and applause, he reminds himself that pleasure is transient. This echoes the Stoic practice of negative visualization—imagining the loss of what we hold dear to appreciate it more fully without attachment.

Example: A young athlete wins a championship and basks in glory. But if he remembers that fame is fleeting, he remains grounded and focused, knowing that success today does not guarantee it tomorrow.

2. In Times of Suffering: Have Patience

When the king is wounded in battle, he consoles himself with the same wisdom—pain, no matter how intense, will eventually pass. This is a powerful lesson in resilience.

Example: A person going through heartbreak or financial crisis may feel overwhelmed, but knowing that this too shall pass gives them the strength to endure and move forward.

3. In Moments of Power: Avoid Ego

The king stands before his own statue and questions the worth of fame, realizing that even the greatest names are eventually forgotten. History is filled with once-glorious rulers and leaders whose legacies have crumbled.

Example: A CEO at the peak of their career should recognize that power is temporary. Leaders like Steve Jobs left a lasting impact, but even the biggest corporate empires evolve, fade, or fall.

4. In Facing Death: Find Peace

At the end of his life, the king questions death itself, only to see a sunbeam illuminating his ring—affirming that even death is a transition, not an end.

Example: Many spiritual traditions offer comfort by viewing death not as an absolute end but as a passage. In Tibetan Buddhism, the Bardo Thodol (Tibetan Book of the Dead) describes death as a transition to another state of existence.


Final Thought: The Eternal Whisper of Change

The Persian king’s wisdom is a gift for all of us. Whether we stand in moments of triumph or despair, we must remember:

Nothing lasts forever—neither joy nor suffering, neither success nor failure.

This realization is not meant to induce apathy but to cultivate balance, resilience, and mindfulness. It encourages us to embrace life fully while maintaining the serenity to let go when the time comes.

So, the next time life blesses you with happiness, enjoy it without clinging. When hardships arise, endure them with patience. Because, in the end...

Even this shall pass away.

Life!!! What !t !s???



Life isn't about keeping score and making scores.
It's not about how many people call you and it's not about who you've dated, are dating, or haven't dated at all.
It isn't about who you've kissed, what sport you play, or which girl or guy likes you.
It's not about your shoes or your hair or the color of your skin or which brand u are fond of. where you live or go to school.
In fact, it's not about grades, money, clothes, or colleges that accept you.
Life isn't about if you have lots of friends, or if you are alone, and it's not about how accepted or unaccepted you are.
Life just isn't about that.
But life is about who you love and who you hurt.
It's about how you feel about yourself.
It's about trust, happiness, and compassion.
It's about sticking up for your friends and replacing inner hate with love.
Life is about avoiding jealousy, overcoming ignorance, and building confidence.
It's about what you say and what you mean.
It's about seeing people for who they are and not what they have.
Most of all, it's about choosing to use your life to touch someone else's in a way that could never have been achieved otherwise.
These choices are what life's about...

L!Fe !s ToO short !!!!!!!!

Life is too short.
Grudges are a waste of perfect happiness.
Laugh when you can, apologize when you should and let go of what you can't change.
Love deeply and forgive quickly.
Take chances.
Give everything and have no regrets.
Life is too short to be unhappy.
You have to take the good with the bad.
Smile when you're sad, love what you got, and always remember what you had.
Always forgive, but never forget.
Learn from your mistakes but never regret.
People change, and things go wrong but always remember.
life goes on!!!